The Magic Money Tree for Work with Children and Young People: Good News?

by Pete Ward, Professor of Practical Theology at Durham University

In the last few years, the Church of England has developed a Vision Strategy for ministry and mission in the Church. Work among children and young people forms a major element in this strategy, and the announced aim to grow a younger Church includes the ambition to train 30,000 youth ministers in the next ten years. Of these, it is anticipated that 10% will be employed either part-time or full-time. To achieve this aim, tens of millions have been set aside and the first grants to pilot training projects have already been allocated.

This is extraordinarily good news for those of us who have been working in this sector for the last 40 years. Yet the fact that this is happening should make us pause and think. This investment in youth ministry is not because of our amazing success record. Rather, the Church has been panicked into spending its historic resources because we have an ever-decreasing number of children and young people. Anecdotally, Churches who want to hire a full-time or part-time youth minister find recruitment extremely difficult because there are currently very few trained youth ministers out there. Hence the Church of England’s decision to develop a strategy to turn things around by training a whole new cohort of youth ministers, both voluntary and paid.

I want to raise one simple question: what is the theological underpinning for what is now proposed? I think a significant part of the calling of the International Association for the Study of Youth Ministry is to reflect deeply on the experience of the Church and on the lives of young people, both those in the Church and those outside. Reflection, if it is to be worth anything, needs to be costly and to dig deep. It needs to ask awkward questions and we need to be honest with ourselves and with others. In particular, how have we got things wrong? Why have we not made the impact that previous funding hoped for?

It is perfectly possible that, even where we have done things that have been filled with the work of God, such activities have also been the cause of our present problems. Even as we have seen amazing youth ministry stuff happen, we have also been causing our own downfall.

In 2002 I wrote a book called Liquid Church (Paternoster Press). My central argument was that all denominations seem to see Church as a meeting; a gathering of people in the same room (sometimes, now, an online room), to do the same things. How might Christians instead engage with the spiritual life and practices that are outside the Church and see these as a missiological starting point for ministry? In my earlier book, Youthwork and the Mission of God (1997), I suggested that there were two approaches to youth ministry: one based on gathering young Christians and Church kids into groups that would be attractional, the other based on a more missional, relationship-based ministry that starts anywhere that young people are naturally present.

In Translating the Message: The Missionary Impact on Culture (1989), the missiologist Lamin Sanneh distinguished complementary ways of doing mission: through diffusion and by means of translation. Translation sees the Church expressing itself in context, in the vernacular, and taking new forms. But diffusion, drawing on what feels familiar, assumes that Church as we know it is the right response, and in the Church of England it was this option that was seen as more attractive and more effective. Church Planting, investing millions of pounds in developing ‘Resource Churches’ on the model of HTB, is essentially a form of diffusion.

The ‘Church Youth Group’ model draws on gathering a group of young people who are already connected to the Church with the expectation that they will draw in others. While there has been a growth in schools-based ministry and school chaplaincy, here again the base line of the work remains the Church Youth Group.

But sticking with the Youth Group model meant the writing was on the wall. Young people are like butterflies. They are with us for a while but soon they move on because they grow up. This makes youth ministry a rather unstable environment; something that is a huge success at one point can, in a relatively short time, struggle to keep the doors open. The logic of the Church Youth Groups rests on a steady flow of young people coming primarily from Christian parents. Many of those in our youth groups do not go on to be adult members of the congregation. That means fewer young adults in the Church, and in turn it means fewer children and young people who might in turn form the basis of future youth groups.

In the late 1990’s and into the 2000s, the language changed, but little else. While ‘relational youth ministry’ became the ‘in’ way of talking and everyone started to find ways to connect with schools or other places young people were to be found, this was used as an add-on to Church groups. The focus inevitably remained on Christian young people and those with whom they socialised.

And it was worship that became the main event; the assumption was that we meet God through sung worship. Recent revelations at Soul Survivor, Hillsong and elsewhere have led many of us, not just in the youth ministry academic community, to start asking questions about these developments: how do we understand what has happened? The worship revolution powerfully reinforced the idea that a meeting in a large auditorium was the basis for mission, to the extent that this has now become the assumed theology of most youth ministry people in the UK.  In previous generations, groups were smaller, meeting in someone’s home; the main event was Bible study and prayer, perhaps with a few songs to get us all feeling good. The large worship event told us instead that, if we really wanted to meet God, we did it by singing these songs. If we were to doubt the power of worship, all we had to do was look around us at the way God was moving so amazingly in and through these kinds of events. There are now several generations of young Christian leaders who cannot imagine any other way of meeting God than through worship songs.

The use of the word ‘Church’ to describe missional work among young people also brought problems. The Church of England reacted to missional innovation by developing a culture of surveillance. Check lists were constructed and dioceses were surveyed to decide when an activity was a Church and when it was not a Church. Church leaders began to develop a scepticism of certain kinds of missional project if they did not conform to what was expected of a ‘Church’. These developments together have meant that forms of missional and contextual ministry were often sidelined.

And then there are the questions around training and employing youth ministers. As various dedicated courses and schemes have closed down, youth ministry training risks becoming too generic, without enough connection between those who are innovating on the ground and those who are being trained. Practitioners need to support, and learn from, each other. The Church has also failed to offer the kind of terms and conditions of employment that can sustain a career. Low pay (and the sense that clergy will always carry more status in the organisation) eroded the confidence of those we had trained and, after one or two jobs, most moved on.

I do not believe that the prevailing pattern of youth ministry based on Church groups and worship events will deliver what is required. It may continue to give energy and life to some, but it is a model that has diminishing returns built into it. My own Diocese of Durham is a warning. If you have no children and young people already linked to the Church and your congregations are aging and declining, then a method that starts by gathering Christian young people is pointless. The larger worship events that we have seen – quite apart from concerns around abuse, money, and power – while they offer life to many, ultimately only serve to cover over the true extent of the problem.

Our dominant existing model of Church Youth Groups and Worship Events makes too many assumptions about how young people meet with God, and shapes what that encounter should look like. Our practice carries a theology and speaks of what we understand God to be and how God might work. Contextualisation puts these assumed theological certainties into the mixer. Adopting a missional approach to youth ministry is effectively the pursuit of a new understanding of how God might be at work and indeed what the social, ethical, and personal implications of meeting God in new ways might be.

The Church of England, as well as having large amounts of money to throw at these problems, has another very significant asset in its network of Church Schools. Several within the central organisation of the Church have started to grasp that, while Churches may have very few if any young people, there are thousands coming every day to the schools that are linked to the Church. This is clearly a wonderful situation and working out how to responsibly, and ethically, share faith and grow disciples, in and through the connection between Churches and Schools, represents the most exciting of prospects.

But here too the model of what ‘Church’ is can be a danger. My own experience has been that many young people are open to experiencing faith and exploring spirituality but what they are less willing to do is join a Church. Where this problem has been overcome, reaching out to young people involves a significant reorientation of congregational life. In other words, contextualisation becomes a key factor in reshaping not simply faith among young people but also the wider life of the congregation. Where the Church is able and willing to change, I think there is hope.

So there is a risk that this last hurrah for youth ministry may be a lost cause unless we are willing to spend some time reflecting upon the problems and shortcomings of everything that has been done to develop youth ministry in this country. I argue for more missional and contextual approaches to work with young people to be developed.

 

Comments

17 responses to “The Magic Money Tree for Work with Children and Young People: Good News?”

  1. Maureen avatar
    Maureen

    Interesting. Especially if the context of the youth ministry is in a deprived inner city multi ethnic setting. Most youth work training seems to be geared towards the ‘nice’ suburban middle class kids. (Which I was & benefited from youth groups & large worship events YFC etc!) But the context I work in now is different & needs different approaches.

  2. Rob Bavington avatar
    Rob Bavington

    A great analysis of the problem, and critique of the way we’ve tried to tackle the problem. The question is are there any models of the way Pete sees the future which are actually “working”?

    1. Pete Ward avatar
      Pete Ward

      Yes I think there are. Quite a few people have got in touch to say they are doing stuff.

      1. Robert Bavington avatar
        Robert Bavington

        It would be great to have some contacts so as others looking to change direction could meet them and get inspiration.

  3. Lucy Moore avatar
    Lucy Moore

    Thanks for this wise overview, Pete. It was exciting yesterday to be at the first gathering of dioceses thinking and praying about piloting FLOURISH- working in and with schools to develop a new church there, obv in collaboration with the local church or churches. It raised LOADS of questions! But the mood was one of working it out together, pioneering, putting young people and their safety/wellbeing/flourishing at the centre, giving them voice, seeking diversity of all kinds, taking reasonable risks and accepting it may ‘fail’ or ‘succeed’ but that we can learn from that failure/ success. It gave me huge hope and (subjectively) felt like a move of God. And accompanying research from the get-go is part of the plan.

    1. Helen King avatar
      Helen King

      Is that ‘accompanying research’ still in the hands of CPAS, Lucy?

    2. Pete Ward avatar
      Pete Ward

      Brilliant. Where can I find out more about Flourish?

  4. philjdurrant avatar

    I confess I got a little defensive as I was reading this since I don’t think the ‘church youth group’ and ‘worship event’ models have been a mistake, but rather one of the best thing going in a rather dire bigger picture. The recent controversy over Mike Pilavachi doesn’t mean Soul Survivor and similar events haven’t been one of the most instrumental catalysts out there for encouraging young people to engage with faith, and a helpful resource to local churches, over many years.

    I am also sceptical about the other ‘missional’ models Pete mentions here, firstly because, despite many years of incarnational mission and beyond-the-walls-of-the-church talk, I haven’t seen any break-away success stories of such models being implemented and resulting in a significant turn-around in the number of young people becoming disciples of Jesus. The hard evaluative questions Pete mentions need to cut both ways. (Apologies if this just reveals my ignorance – please point me in the direction of the compelling alternatives if I’ve missed them!). Secondly, I’m not aware that we’re producing the kinds of bold, creative and confident pioneers needed to deliver or develop such models anyway. For that to be the case our churches need to be bolder, more creative and far more confident in the first place.

    What I did agree with here was: firstly, the importance of asking hard evaluative questions about the real problems and the way to allocate emergency funding, and secondly, linked to that, the acknowledgement that schools/education are a key area we need to focus on. I think the elephant in the room is the fact that Western Christianity has outsourced education to an increasingly secular state, and even so-called church schools are pretty secular in their outlook and philosophy. The biggest reason the church has been haemorrhaging young people is that it simply cannot compete with the vast formative influences of education and media. ‘Disciples are made not born’. An hour or two at a Christian youth club a week, even if top-notch and supplemented by an intentional and supportive Christian home environment, is up against -what? – 32 hours of secular schooling, and 45 hours of screen time a week. It’s amazing (and a tribute to the compelling nature of the gospel) that we’re even doing as well as we are under the circumstances.

    Lord Shaftesbury wrote to his brother-in-law in 1870: ‘Well, the Education Bill is passed… It was inevitable; but you will date, from it, the greatest moral change that England has ever known’, and elsewhere: ‘ten thousand are taught to read, not one hundred will be taught to know that there is a God.’

    I read something recently about the retention rates of the Amish people – 85% (as compared to 50% for UK church). I can’t help thinking we all need to get a little more radical/sectarian in our outlook before the frog dies in the slow-boil!

    1. Alex Fry avatar
      Alex Fry

      Just a brief comment to say that there is good sociological evidence to show that sectarianism doesn’t work very well. It may help keep those already in the fold in but the boundaries become very thick, making it difficult for others to enter. I would also be wary of the Amish example. Those who leave are often cut off from family and friends with no real safety net for work or housing. I’m not sure they are motivations for staying in the fold that a Gospel-confident Church would want to risk intorudcing.

      1. philjdurrant avatar

        Hi Alex, thanks for this. Would be really interested to know about that research. If you could point me in the right direction please I’d really appreciate it. I’m not a sociologist but have begun to reflect on this area – I was very affected by a book called Mission Implausible: Restoring Credibility to the Church by Duncan McLaren a few years ago which looked at mission through a sociological lens. He argued we needed to be more ‘benignly sectarian’ in some of our strategies. I found it pretty convincing.

        I wasn’t necessarily holding up the shunning mechanism of Amish church discipline as an example – but since you mention it, I suspect it would be far from fair to say, as you seem to imply, that the only reason for the high retention of their young people is by generating fear of being cut off from the community. An incredibly strong sense of group identity, self-sufficiency, in-house schooling, no TV or social media etc are also going to be pretty powerful factors! The Amish also tend to observe a degree of laxity towards teenagers going through the “rumspringa” phase, before they have made a personal decision to be baptised and live their lives according to the ordnung or not etc. I’m intrigued by the extreme example of the Amish because it throws into stark relief the ineffectiveness of our own strategies for retention, and the whooping we’re receiving from a host culture that is effectively socialising our children into ‘shunning’ their inherited faith.

  5. Alex Fry avatar
    Alex Fry

    Hi Phil, a good place to start would be Smith’s ‘American Evangelicalism: Embattled and Thriving’ Mathew Guest has since showed its applicability in the UK context in ‘Evangelical Identity and Contemporary Culture’. I’m unsure why you assumed I was suggesting that there is only one reason for staying in Amish communities, or that fear was that motivating factor. In context, I was giving an example of why the example you offered is not the best foundation for the Church’s response to declining numbers. Of course, some of the other factors you mention are closely related to the one I mention- particularly that of identity.

    1. philjdurrant avatar

      Thanks Alex! Have added these to my wish list!

  6. Philip Groves avatar
    Philip Groves

    Thanks Pete. I trained for ordination in the mid 1980s and the training included a six week module on the spiritual development of families. We focused on the the theology of discipleship in Michael McCoy’s brilliant work ‘The Child in our Midst’ and his emphasis on child centred church that looked at how discipleship is not the Alpha model of drawing people from the fringe to the centre, but the Jesus model of sending those in the centre out. McCoy was within an Anglo Catholic setting of the Anglican Church in Southern Africa.

    Everywhere I have been a minister, I have led the church to place children at the centre and sought to engage with an all age church. It means that children know that church is their place and they are nurtured to go out in mission as they grow in faith. Our older people, who initially found the transition hard, are now regularly coming and praising the services as they have become far more relational. They have also stepped up their action in the community as a response to the calling of Christ.

    This Sunday in our two village churches (combined pop of 2,600) we had 60 adults and 30 children worshipping together. The adults had grown up worship and a grown up message to hear. They also loved being led in a new song by an impromptu choir of 6 children.

    My problem is that the clergy and LLMs coming through to work with us are not trained in leading an all age church worship. I ask them to lead an all age Holy communion service and they struggle. They didn’t have the training in the theology and practice of discipleship. I think this is where the emphasis is needed.

  7. Mr Chris Priddy avatar

    Thanks Pete, really interesting.
    We are working using sport as a context for connecting with young people, in school and communities, with the intention of creating new forms of church with them – forms that will be shaped by the young people, not created by our models. Utilising George Lings’ work on 7 sacred spaces as our framework. Funded by the Diocese, trading income, donations, stewardship, grant funding.
    I trained as a church youthworker in the early 2,000’s. As I look at the training of the 30,000, I now strongly believe that some form of ‘sports/play/physical activity’ training should be a strand of that. It is not only an effective way of connecting with young people, but it brings added beneficial outcomes – health and fitness/MH/team bonds/challenge/fun etc….

  8. Bob avatar
    Bob

    An interesting article. Other valuable approaches to reaching families, young children and young people is to work with Christian holiday centres such as The Oakes holiday centre in Sheffield, which combine the gospel with fun activities. Also if churches have few or no families, children or young people then perhaps toddler groups, new mums groups, family fun days, dads and lads/mums and daughters games nights etc could be a way forward. Alongside these activities there needs to be a more welcoming pattern to services, getting away from the “we have always done it this way” pattern of 1662 services every Sunday.

    1. Helen King avatar
      Helen King

      It seems to me that most of your suggestions hinge on these young people already having a connection with the church. I’m also uneasy about the ‘combining the gospel with fun activities’ approach – couldn’t we just have fun as the aim, and then wait for those attending to ask us about our faith?

      1. Bob avatar
        Bob

        Actually many of those coming to activities during the week at my church have no connection to church. They just live in the parish and recommend the activities to their friends. Also the children and young people invite their friends. As for the Oakes centre, many of the groups attending are from churches but also many are year groups from local schools. All those attending know in advance that it is a Christian holiday centre. It’s in their name.

Any thoughts?