Safeguarding and Patriarchy in the Church of England

by Revd Martine Oborne, Chair of WATCH (Women and the Church), a group that works for gender equality in the Church of England

The 253-page Makin report on the Church of England’s handling of the John Smyth abuse case – that has brought about the resignation of the Archbishop of Canterbury – has been pored over by many people in recent days. But one part that has so far been overlooked is the section that links the abuse with patriarchy.

In 9.1.9-10 the report describes the patriarchal culture of the camps at which the abuse took place and how this was conducive to that abuse. Makin says that the camps were entirely run by men and a victim states: ‘…it was an incredibly sexist set up, a group of people called lady helpers, many of whom were either wives of the leaders or female undergraduates. These lady helpers were kept out of sight, out of mind, they’d be doing the cooking in the kitchen…’

The report goes on to say that clinical psychologist, Dr Elly Hanson, also explores how this patriarchal approach… ‘was a conducive cultural and organisational factor,’ describing the impact in relation to this case as follows:

“Misogyny and patriarchy: men are seen as in authority over women… men are granted more power than women and treated as having more wisdom and insight. As a result, John’s behaviour and justifications may have been given more legitimacy; his focus on young men was not questioned; and potentially valuable perspectives from women were absent.”

The Church of England still uses its exemptions under The Equality Act 2010 to discriminate against women on the grounds of their sex. For example, it is still permissible for churches to ask only male candidates to apply for a post as a vicar. It is permissible for such churches to limit women’s ministry and prohibit them from preaching to, or teaching, men. It is permissible for such churches to say that they cannot accept oversight of a female Bishop but need to be overseen by a male Bishop such as a ‘flying bishop’ like the Bishop of Ebbsfleet. There are many such churches in London and big university cities and they include All Souls Langham Place, St Helen’s Bishopsgate, St Andrew the Great in Cambridge and St Ebbe’s in Oxford.

The flip side of this permission is alarming: no one can be considered for training as a priest in the Church if they want women and men to be treated equally and do not accept the institutional discrimination that has been in place for thirty years, ever since women were first ‘permitted’ to be priests. And those who critique this discrimination find it very hard, if not impossible, to progress to senior posts in the Church. Ironically, the arrangements are referred to as ‘mutual flourishing’ which is shorthand for the expectation that both women and those who don’t fully accept women’s ministry can flourish.

This ongoing discrimination is an injustice to women who, both ordained and lay, work hard throughout the country serving their churches and communities and who deserve to be treated equally with their male colleagues.

And it is also unsafe.

A culture which is essentially an old boys’ club is a fertile environment not only for abuse but also for its cover up, as we have seen in the Church regarding the Smyth case. Furthermore, it is an environment in which one entitled group is facilitated in exerting coercive control over another group.

The Bishop of Newcastle has shown great integrity and courage in upholding safeguarding standards in the Church, not only by calling on the Archbishop of Canterbury to resign but also by publishing a letter she received from him and the Archbishop of York recently, which was patronising and coercive in trying to get her to adopt a certain position on another safeguarding issue relating to John Sentamu.

Women are called to show ‘gracious restraint’ in the Church and to accept that some of their colleagues have the right to limit their ministry. This practice is essentially coercive, requiring women to accept a diminished status without complaint and gaslighting them, if they resist, by calling them unkind and saying that they are marginalising others.

Although, as a result of the Makin report, there is an immediate need to arrange for independent safeguarding in the Church, safety will not be fully addressed without changing the culture that has been an old boys’ club for far too long. One helpful step would be to put an end to institutional discrimination by sex. If the Church won’t do this itself then maybe Parliament should consider removing its exemptions under The Equality Act – so that it would be illegal for the Church to continue discriminating.

And, hopefully, it could then authentically become the spiritual voice for the nation – both safeguarding the vulnerable and treating all people equally.

 

 

Comments

7 responses to “Safeguarding and Patriarchy in the Church of England”

  1. R Prieto avatar
    R Prieto

    Classism and old boys’ networks are traditional and well established forms of cultural corruption in the Church of England. The use of the final coercive control of Parliament would finally reinforce a culture of coercive control.

  2. DAVID HAWKINS avatar
    DAVID HAWKINS

    “If the Church won’t do this itself then maybe Parliament should consider removing its exemptions under The Equality Act – so that it would be illegal for the Church to continue discriminating.”
    I don’t think you have thought through the implications of this suggestion. Do you suggest your proposal should only apply to the Church of England ? If so why ?
    Because if your suggestion applied to all churches the Orthodox and Roman Catholic churches would cease to function and if your proposal only applied to the Church of England then there would most certainly be a split with conservative parishes leaving.
    I write this as someone who is strongly in favour of women bishops and priests.

    1. Mark Andiam avatar
      Mark Andiam

      I keep hearing this argument that the CofE does not have special exemption from the Equality Act because the exemption applies to all religious organisations. However, unlike all others, the Church of England is Established, and that means that its divergence from the law of the land is especially problematic. I can well see that Parliament may say to the CofE either give up your right to discriminate on the grounds of sex (and sexuality) or give up your seats in the Lords and the other special privileges of Establishment. I certainly cannot see how the current situation can continue.

  3. huggymac avatar
    huggymac

    This is not about Safeguarding. It is about money. I was Raped and sexually abused at boarding school under the auspices of the Church of England. The Old Boys Club will Never accept the loss of traditionalist parishes because such parishes pay Huge sums into diocesan coffers. S. Ebbe, Oxford certainly does. That’s why there is no woman bishop of Oxford, despite women being priests all over the diocese…….. The whole thing Stinks.

  4. John Davies avatar
    John Davies

    Unfortunately, so long as we have a Bible in which patriarchy is regarded as normative, and which is treated in certain circles as sacrosanct, as the basis of our faith, you are going to have this problem. I don’t know how you’re going to get round it, as we have a whole new generation of traditional fundamentalists insisting that we take their interpretation literally gaining ground, and power, through these wealthy ‘Old Boys Club’ churches. My daughter in law, who was head of a Plymouth Brethren private school until recently, commented on the amount of wealth and social power that demonination has, so it isn’t just an Anglican problem – they have the advantage of not being Established, and under the public radar in a way we don’t.

    Sadly common sense and genuine equality don’t go together with Biblical literalism, any more than Putin and peace do.

  5. Veronica Zundel avatar
    Veronica Zundel

    It’s not only patriarchy, but the culture of closeted/repressed homosexuality fostered by ‘public’ schools. It’s abundantly clear that Smyth (along with several other abusers) was a repressed homosexual and took his own self-hatred out on young men to whom he was probably attracted. If the C of E had a more open attitude to the many gay people among its most faithful followers, perhaps they would be able to have consensual adult relationships and not become abusers.

  6. steve parkin avatar
    steve parkin

    Safeguarding recommendations of it being independent of the church by the jay report must go ahead as a starter The church also needs to look at assessing those in positions of authority in regard to personality disorders e.g. Narcissistic Personality Disorder like John Smythe as learn. Church also needs to be trauma informed as a matter of urgency.

Any thoughts?